The Day of Regret
We all hope we won’t regret it.
Whatever it is.
We joke about our children needing therapy when they get older because some of our actions when they are kids. But we’re really hoping that we don’t mess them up to0 badly, right?
Because we all know that we’re not perfect parents. In our head, the list of our mistakes as parents is often much longer than our list of successes. The daily trudge of taking care of our parental duties weighs on us and, sometimes, we’re just NOT Parent of the Year material.
Ok – more often than sometimes.
When our child struggles, we wonder what we did wrong. When they fail at something, we feel like we have failed. When they misbehave, we feel like we’re falling short.
Parenting is a daily challenge that would have been impossible for me without God. He gave me strength and patience for my children when I had none. I started participating in small group Bible studies while I was in my prime parenting years and I’ve never stopped. My trust in God has grown along with my understanding of his love for me and my family. God’s constant assurance that he was on my side became the foundation for my parenting when my children were still small. During this time, my husband was growing in his faith as well, so God had lots of opportunities to work things out for us at our house.
Looking back I have no regrets. My children are not now and have never been perfect. Our house was never perfect. Our family life has never been perfect. But it is good.
And God is always good.